Other people around.  I've gone off with him in other dreams but don't want to be obvious. They get involved in something and P. invites me for a shower or it's assumed I'll join him.  There's an inevitability despite my feeling I shouldn't since he has a girlfriend.  He's cut his hair. shaved his beard. I think this is again that shower in a bed. he's naked and his hips are too wide--like he's got 3 spines wide in the center in a wrong way.  He wants oral sex [this is due to the B.J. episode on X Files.] He does come and there's a hint of sexual possibility but it goes nowhere.There is a box of hair color (my color) that has an alarm button on the top that is flashing.  I push it to turn it off. I don't know why it was set.  His girlfriend's makeup bag overturns and we're trying to put the things back but they are mixed up with mine. He doesn't seem to know which are hers and we push items in then he zips it and stuffs it into a cubby.  She eventually arrives and I'm surprised that she doesn't realize the situation.

Walking over to another part of the restaurant through an alley.  Out in the street it's ominous with gangs. Guys going to a club called SEE or IF that I remember from another dream. A man with dirty blond hair in blue shirt and jeans wants to touch his left chest. A friend pulls him away. I go back.
Waitressing.  A man sitting behind the booth in underwear. When "I"(Becky not me) he wants food on the floor.  He says "I know you want to put down a placemat."  He wants waldorf salad which now includes asparagus.

Monica and I arrive at our hotel room that we're sharing with and unknown parisianne woman [this is likely due to french ancestry question from Emily.] I can hear her in our room as we walk up to it so we move off to the side to chat/regroup before going in.

[As I'm drifting off] Monica says: "a woman having one (an affair) is a Mason"